I try to keep my work and private life as separate as I can. But sometimes fate, karma, destiny or whatever just makes it impossible to hold on to that principle. This morning, I walked into my office and had a quick look at the press releases of the prosecution service on my computer screen, just one of those daily, mechanical habits of mine, almost as routine-driven as my half-hourly trips to the coffee machine. One headline in particular caught my attention: an alderman on the city council of a town in the south of the
Within minutes after I read it I was on the phone telling Ren嶪 that a cousin of her mother -who indeed is an alderman for the liberal party in that particular city which also happens to be the place of birth of Ren嶪 mother- had been arrested and charged with child molestation. Apparently, back in the nineties, this 61 y/o man had been molesting a teenage boy for several years. This boy, now a 25 y/o, had been arrested on unrelated assault charges, but during the investigation the police had discovered that he had been planning a murder attempt on this alderman.
Why? The detectives asked. Well, when I was just a kid, there was this alderman who?/FONT>
Our prosecution service is just like any other; theye not in the habit of detaining people with a high public profile on the basis of a mere hunch, the repercussions for doing so would be swift and severe. So my guess is that the evidence must be pretty firm, otherwise they would have chosen a more discrete approach. Instead, the alderman was arrested like a common criminal and carted off to the local jail.
Although the case is as sad and sordid as any other of its kind, there are two aspects that make it stand out from the rest. At least to Ren嶪 and me. First of all, it a cousin of Ren嶪 mother, and secondly, because of his public profile, it will get enough media attention; her mother won be able to feign ignorance.
Given the fact that Ren嶪 mother has a history of total denial when it comes to the abuse of her own daughter, and avoids any confrontation however remotely related to these matters, having a well-liked and respected family member in jail on molestation charges must have really rattled her cage. Yet another sign that all not well with some of the people she trusts and respects.
Ren嶪 and I know that it must really bother her because she always used to describe her cousin as a respected member of his community, a family member who done well in life with a cheerful character, someone whom we should certainly visit should we ever be in the neighbourhood. Yeah right. Just tell me where and when...
My guess is that there are precious few confidants with which she can discuss the case, because child abuse is very much a no-go area for her. Wel see how things develop. But it seems that the whole abuse issue just got more intense, and it definitely getting harder for Ren嶪 mother to keep avoiding the subject.













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